K likes fashion and to sew - so she got a sewing machine, fabric, and lessons. She likes party planning, so she found an internship for a year doing just that. She likes doing hair, so she got to do all the hair for J's dance competitions, sought out the best cosmetology school in NY, and will be graduating in September.
J likes to sing. So for a few years she was taking private lessons and performing songs at dance competitions (where she even won a regional title for singing). She loves dancing. So, B and I made sure she has had every opportunity available - competition team, private lessons, outside and master classes, conventions, admittance into the best performing arts high school, and her dream conservatory, which she's starting in a few months.
W loves computers. So he does tons of research on what the best keyboards, headsets, mice, and programs are, and he's learned how to use Best Buy and online purchasing to his advantage. He likes martial arts, so he's tried karate, then switched to MMA, where he goes 3 times a week. He likes engineering projects and making YouTube tutorials and juggling and Myachi, and magic and claymation and Manga. We have helped him pursue all of these interests. He's met a ton of real Myachi masters and demonstrated with them, he's taken claymation and Manga drawing classes, and he is self taught with the projects and tutorials.
I think they've had such great lives - lives I would have given anything to have as a child. In reading some John Taylor Gatto (again) I really wish I found him right after my kids were born. One thing that would have got me thinking about homeschooling from the beginning was this quote, "...schooling itself is a highly questionable practice. It's possible to derive some value from it, but the damage is always, I think, much greater than any value that's possible. In many, many instances, there is no value offered. It's simply a confinement exercise." Powerful words that resonate with my own schooling experience. And now that both K and J have finished their high schooling at ("excellent") public schools - well, J has 1 more week - I have to agree even more. No matter what kind of school it is, it's a HUGE waste of time. K got nothing out of hers, except a few more friends and she learned some cool computer programs working on the yearbook. J got nothing out of hers except a few more friends and the fantastic dance education - which thankfully took up half her school day. The academics in school are a joke unless your child is REALLY into them, and even so, they're full of ridiculous busywork, tedium, classroom disruptions and poor school management, and unfortunately many children like that usually have to deal with added negative social consequences.
Here's a quote by Pat Farenga, "The only difference between a good student and a bad student is that a good student is careful not to forget what he studied until after the test." He also stated that "John (Holt) noted that a child choosing to attend school is in a far different relationship to that school than all the students who are there solely because of their age...If a child knows they can leave school at any time with their parents' support, it makes their choices easier and helps build bonds of trust and communication." I found this to be true. My girls, as much as they found school annoying and tedious, were there by their own choice, going in with a way different mindset than their peers.
W is choosing to homeschool for high school and I'm so glad. He will start college (or whatever he chooses) with such a different outlook on his future than I did (and that most of his peers will). These next 5 years of homeschooling are looking to be some of the best ever. Now that I finally got a new job (I'll be working weekday mornings and weekends) W and I can "do the town" once again and hopefully, way more often. There is so much out there for teens and he wants to do it all. This summer is going to kick it all off.
W took the California Achievement Test for 7th grade last week. He was so nervous, but I knew he'd be fine. When he took it two years ago, he did ok - way above the required 33rd percentile, but not as well as I know he could have. At that time I just handed him the test and said GO. But that was a month before he was evaluated for a learning disability. When he got his Visual Processing Disorder/dyslexia diagnosis he also got a list of recommended accommodations for a classroom and for test-taking. Alas, it was too late for that year. So, this time around I made sure to use some of those accommodations. I read everything out loud to him to make sure he fully understood all directions. But even with my reading I have a feeling he got some wrong in the language and reading sections. He crinkled up his face at the vocabulary section, but seemed confident with punctuation/capitalization, comprehension, and mechanics. He flew through both math sections. He even laughed at it and asked me if I was sure this was the right grade. I reminded him that he did this math more than a year ago. He said I must be a really great teacher since he could do a lot of the problems in his head. Then he said it was definitely the Times Tales and Saxon. He still recalls the Times Tales pictures when multiplying. I also swear by all the drill and mastery of the basic math we'd done over the years. He'd still like to stick with Life of Fred for now.
We're going to start working on a lot more reading to help him with vocabulary and spelling. He will read some things out loud to me and some things silently. We'll do more narrations and discussions and use these readings as a base for some writing. We'll bring back novels, too, shooting for at least 3 per year. I want him to appreciate a good story like he used to when we did Ambleside Online. He grew so attached to stories when we took our time with them, that he had a hard time getting rid of the books when we were done with them. I also have Painless Vocabulary, Painless Grammar, and Daily Sparks Spelling & Grammar to throw in here and there.
All in all, it's been a great school year. My kids have all achieved their immediate goals (K- top cosmetology school while working at an awe$ome job, J - graduating top performing arts high school and starting performing arts conservatory on scholarship, and W - overcoming reading issues/excelling in math and pursuing all interests). I couldn't ask for better.
Here's what's on the agenda for the summer through 8th grade. I think we actually have a real plan now, lol:
English: I have so much leftover from my girls that it's silly to buy anything new. We'll be using a mixed bag of Wordsmith Apprentice, Jump In, Daily Sparks Spelling & Grammar, Daily Sparks Vocabulary, Painless Vocabulary, Painless Grammar, Simply Grammar, and Basic Series Grammar & Usage. It's a lot, but W likes to switch things up every so often. Nothing really builds on previous lessons, so it should work fine.
Literature: I'm sticking with Shel Silverstein poetry since W loves it and it helps with his reading. We'll also try to read at least 3 novels with narrations and discussions. I have so many on my shelf - we'll just choose what sounds good.
Science: We'll finish Apologia General Science over the summer - we really just do the great experiments and base the lesson off of those. For 8th grade I'll either get Apologia Physical Science (again mainly for the experiments) or use the Holt Science & Technology Series Physical Science since I already have that one on hand. W doesn't care for it, though. I'll see how the Apologia goes over the summer. If it's a real big hit I'll get the next one. He gets writing in with the lab reports, as well.
Geography: We're happy with Runkle's and will continue it through 8th grade. We're also starting Our Great Restaurant Adventure this summer where we'll go to a different ethnic restaurant every 2 weeks, then study that country for the 2 weeks until the next one. We're going alphabetically and starting with Afghan cuisine next Wednesday. Can't wait!
History: We'll finish K12 Human Odyssey 1 (Ancients) hopefully sometime in the fall and move on to Volume 2. We also have The Complete Book of World History which is a fun and concise supplement.
Spanish: Getting Started with Spanish is by far the best book for W. He does this completely independently. It's a spiral program that builds on the previous lessons. He reads, translates, and conjugates in every lesson. Love this.
Miscellaneous: Summer Bridge Gr. 7-8 and Summer Express Gr. 7-8 are great for a variety of subject work any time of year. Spectrum Gr. 8 Test Prep for basic skills, and Artistic Pursuits Junior High Book One for art, but W isn't really into this. I'll try it again over the summer.
Religion: CCD once a week and will make his Confirmation in the spring.
P.E.: Mixed Martial Arts 3 days a week (4-5 classes) doing Muay Thai and Brazilian Jiu jitsu.
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